First of all, I really hate the term DDLG. Let’s erase that. Let’s make it Big/Little. At least for my blog, okay? Or even, caregiver/little. Let’s all try not to be so gender-directed.<3
Second, I’m going to quote from a recent post I made on Fet to answer this question:
"I’m not totally sure what you are looking for here, but DDLG called to Daddy and I for many reasons. I think the main is that for me, it’s one of the most beautiful ways to show you love someone. A good caregiver thinks of their little one the same way you would your own child; you want them to grow and flourish, be the best they can be, develop into a unique and interesting person that loves themselves. You are proud of them. You want them to make good choices, but don’t mind encouraging and coaching when needed. They know that their opinions might not always be the popular ones, but they will be made with their loved ones best interests at heart. All my opinion, of course
In return, the little finds someone that they can look up to. Someone they can rely on and that they can be there to support too. It’s deeper than a regular relationship, in my opinion. It’s putting someone else’s interests on the same level of your own. Deep, deep love and understanding.
I love feeling safe and protected. I love feeling like myself even on my worst days. I love not having to turn on or off my fetish, that it’s just a part of me. I love feeling accepted. I love feeling wanted. I love pleasing Daddy. I love meeting new littles! I love no longer being ashamed for liking animated movies, or making a stuffie at Build a Bear. I love knowing that even if I’m insecure about the little parts of me, if I choose to show them, the people who matter most will still love and accept me. I love being in a relationship where I’m encouraged to grow into the best individual person I can be as well as the best member of a team.
That’s why DDLG for me. It’s magical.”
On my dash again today~!
I kinda love it when my content shows up on my dash. Makes me feel all giddy.